Raising a Secure Child

Raising a Secure Child

Now the simple, powerful "Circle of Security" parenting strategies that Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, and Bert Powell have taught thousands of families are available in self-help form for the first time.ÿ You will learn:ÿ *How to balance ...

Author: Kent Hoffman

Publisher: Guilford Publications

ISBN: 9781462528134

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 280

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Today's parents are constantly pressured to be perfect. But in striving to do everything right, we risk missing what children really need for lifelong emotional security. Now the simple, powerful "Circle of Security" parenting strategies that Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, and Bert Powell have taught thousands of families are available in self-help form for the first time.ÿ You will learn:ÿ *How to balance nurturing and protectiveness with promoting your child's independence.ÿ *What emotional needs a toddler or older child may be expressing through difficult behavior. *How your own upbringing affects your parenting style--and what you can do about it.ÿ Filled with vivid stories and unique practical tools, this book puts the keys to healthy attachment within everyone's reach--self-understanding, flexibility, and the willingness to make and learn from mistakes. Self-assessment checklists can be downloaded and printed for ease of use.
Categories: Family & Relationships

Raising a Secure Child

Raising a Secure Child

Arguing that emotional availability represents the key to parenting a happier child, this practical handbook discusses the fundamental principles of emotional availability and how to apply them to a variety of family situations, explaining ...

Author: Zeynep Biringen

Publisher: Perigee Trade

ISBN: 0399529942

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 317

View: 689

Arguing that emotional availability represents the key to parenting a happier child, this practical handbook discusses the fundamental principles of emotional availability and how to apply them to a variety of family situations, explaining how to create an emotional connection with one's children and develop new ways of nourishing emotional bonds with children of any age. Original.
Categories: Family & Relationships

The Circle of Security Intervention

The Circle of Security Intervention

Presenting both a theoretical foundation and proven strategies for helping caregivers become more attuned and responsive to their young children's emotional needs (ages 0-5), this is the first comprehensive presentation of the Circle of ...

Author: Bert Powell

Publisher: Guilford Publications

ISBN: 9781462512126

Category: Psychology

Page: 396

View: 409

Presenting both a theoretical foundation and proven strategies for helping caregivers become more attuned and responsive to their young children's emotional needs (ages 0-5), this is the first comprehensive presentation of the Circle of Security (COS) intervention. The book lucidly explains the conceptual underpinnings of COS and demonstrates the innovative attachment-based assessment and intervention strategies in rich clinical detail, including three chapter-length case examples. Reproducible forms and handouts can be downloaded and printed in a convenient 8 1/2" x 11" size. COS is an effective research-based program that has been implemented throughout the world with children and parents experiencing attachment difficulties. The authors are corecipients of the 2013 Bowlby-Ainsworth Award, presented by the New York Attachment Consortium, for developing and implementing COS. See also the authors' related parent guide: Raising a Secure Child: How Circle of Security Parenting Can Help You Nurture Your Child's Attachment, Emotional Resilience, and Freedom to Explore.
Categories: Psychology

Nurture Your Child

Nurture Your Child

The manner in which you converse with your kid shows him how to converse with others That is why NURTURE YOU CHILD is so important. In this Book Mrs. Redemption Hope, a mindfulness expert, and psychologist.

Author: Redemption Hope

Publisher:

ISBN: 9798745842665

Category:

Page: 54

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This bestselling, critical illustrated guidebook for Parents is a reliable companion that can make you feel optimistic about your child's behavior. Nurturing your child is A significant piece of control in figuring out how to converse with kids so they will understand. The manner in which you converse with your kid shows him how to converse with others That is why NURTURE YOU CHILD is so important. In this Book Mrs. Redemption Hope, a mindfulness expert, and psychologist. Put this together to helps you let go of constant self-judgment and treat yourself with the same kindness and caring you strive to offer your kids. Simple but powerful guideline and it is very easy to practice while doing the dishes or driving to work. These are the few things you are going to learn from this book THE STUDY OF NURTURING CARE WHAT IS NURTURING CARE? WHY NURTURING IS VERY IMPORTANT PARTS OF NURTURING CARE MAKING NURTURING CARE A REALITY FOR ALL KIDS WHAT ARE THE FUNDAMENTAL CHARACTERISTICS IN NURTURING A CHILD THE SIGNIFICANCE OF NURTURING A KID BE THAT AS IT MAY, WHOSE OBLIGATION IN NURTURING A KID? WHY NURTURING A CHILD IS SIGNIFICANT? WHAT IS CHILD IMPROVEMENT? SPACES OF KID IMPROVEMENT HOW YOU CAN HELP BUILD UP YOUR CHILD'S MEMORY: THE MOST PROFICIENT METHOD TO HELP YOUR CHILD CREATE SOLID CONNECTIONS THE MOST PROFICIENT METHOD TO CONSTRUCT LANGUAGE ABILITIES FOR YOUR CHILD: And other good things that you need to know. IT IS IMPORTANT THAT YOU GET A COPY OF THIS BOOK FOR YOUR HOME
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Modern Attachment Parenting

Modern Attachment Parenting

This book provides information to help parents choose their own attachment style, and makes attachment parenting accessible to everyone, no matter their life or family structure.

Author: Jamie Grumet

Publisher: Rockridge Press

ISBN: 1646110366

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 152

View: 216

An updated guide to the renowned parenting philosophy Attachment parenting is the beloved, yet often misunderstood, philosophy of ensuring your children grow up with their needs completely fulfilled. Modern Attachment Parenting gives you all the information you need to choose your own AP adventure. Modern Attachment Parenting doesn't overload you with parenting rules, but rather empowers you with information. It is an evolution of the science, free of any guilt, misgivings, or judgment on your formal parental role, and an open philosophy of finding the version right for you--an a la carte buffet of AP. This standout among attachment parenting books includes: The baby b's--Meet your baby's core needs with these seven tools including birth bonding, breastfeeding, and balance. Not just for couples--No matter what your family structure looks like, single, married, working, or co-parenting, the methods and philosophies of attachment parenting work equally great. Myth vs reality--Don't be fooled by common misconceptions about AP--learn about the positive realities of raising a child with this philosophy. Modern Attachment Parenting is everything an AP book should be. Give your child the love and support they deserve by using the techniques outlined in this fine text.
Categories: Family & Relationships

Relationship Parenting

Relationship Parenting

Published a chapter in the book Family Strengths IV, University of Nebraska Press; A program through Purdue University home extension service entitled "Marriage Enrichment for New Parents;" a Pre-marriage video Series called "Before the ...

Author: Richard L Sudsberry Ma

Publisher:

ISBN: 1677221046

Category:

Page: 156

View: 787

About Relationship Parenting: Sometimes parents must pull rank and set down non-negotiable expectations and rules. However, if your child frequently misbehaves, it's time to evaluate your family's activities and home life. So many times, poor discipline is blamed for "problem" children, but the problems often originate when a child's needs are not met. During a child's life, the relationship his parents create with him should be based on bonding. Some call this process attachment parenting. It is actually Relationship Parenting. About the Author: Rick Sudsberry began his counseling work: after graduation from the University of Illinois at Springfield. Since 1972 he has provided help to individuals, couples and families. He has been married for 32 years and has two adult sons, Ryan and Chad. He has: Counseled for 29 years. Developed a private clinical practice focused on an attachment treatment approach for children and parents, as well as for couples. Published a chapter in the book Family Strengths IV, University of Nebraska Press; A program through Purdue University home extension service entitled "Marriage Enrichment for New Parents;" a Pre-marriage video Series called "Before the Vows," and has self published manuals "Leading Children Who Won't Follow" and "Relationship Parenting-Leading Children So They Will Follow." Presented at National, State and local conferences. Rick also leads numerous educator seminars and parenting workshops for schools and churches.
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Beyond Permissiveness

Beyond Permissiveness

Author: Stephen Griew

Publisher: Stoddart Pub

ISBN: 0773754938

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 247

View: 808

Categories: Family & Relationships

Truth

Truth

Truth The art of raising stable style and secure children is a single parent playbook designed for parents raising children alone.

Author: Nicole Randle

Publisher: Bookbaby

ISBN: 1098350421

Category:

Page: 72

View: 630

Truth The art of raising stable style and secure children is a single parent playbook designed for parents raising children alone. Understanding the role of a parent is important in providing a foundation and environment for the child to build upon physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. The strategies will ensure you as a parent provide your child with a childhood they can look back on with a smile understand their parents action an inactions.
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Simplicity Parenting

Simplicity Parenting

Simplicity Parenting offers inspiration, ideas, and a blueprint for change: • Streamline your home environment.

Author: Kim John Payne

Publisher: Ballantine Books

ISBN: 9780345516985

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 400

View: 703

Today’s busier, faster society is waging an undeclared war on childhood. With too much stuff, too many choices, and too little time, children can become anxious, have trouble with friends and school, or even be diagnosed with behavioral problems. Now internationally renowned family consultant Kim John Payne helps parents reclaim for their children the space and freedom that all kids need for their attention to deepen and their individuality to flourish. Simplicity Parenting offers inspiration, ideas, and a blueprint for change: • Streamline your home environment. Reduce the amount of toys, books, and clutter—as well as the lights, sounds, and general sensory overload. • Establish rhythms and rituals. Discover ways to ease daily tensions, create battle-free mealtimes and bedtimes, and tell if your child is overwhelmed. • Schedule a break in the schedule. Establish intervals of calm and connection in your child’s daily torrent of constant doing. • Scale back on media and parental involvement. Manage your children’s “screen time” to limit the endless deluge of information and stimulation. A manifesto for protecting the grace of childhood, Simplicity Parenting is an eloquent guide to bringing new rhythms to bear on the lifelong art of raising children.
Categories: Family & Relationships

Raising a Successful Child THe Manual

Raising a Successful Child  THe Manual

Based on past successful parenting practices and even more excitingly on fairly recent research findings that point to new directions in parenting, this book provides in clear and simple language the tools for raising successful children.

Author: Joan Franklin Smutny

Publisher: Createspace Independent Pub

ISBN: 1456557912

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 140

View: 486

Raising A Successful Child (The Manual) gets to the heart of what every parent needs to know to have a warm, loving, emotionally healthy relationship with their baby and to raise a happy, healthy, secure child. Based on past successful parenting practices and even more excitingly on fairly recent research findings that point to new directions in parenting, this book provides in clear and simple language the tools for raising successful children. The typical extremes of parenting books alternate between extremes of overparenting and more recently, "tough-parenting." As always, the pendulum swings from one extreme to the other, while the real answers and healthy approaches to parenting reside in the healthy valley between these extremes. Raising A Successful Child (The Manual) introduces parents to the idea of a balanced life for a child--work and play are equally important at all stages of development. The Manual further provides an easy to follow road map to help both child and parent develope a healthy, loving, and, yes, successful life. Exploring all the things that can go wrong, reading about alarmist sentiments or vignettes of struggling parents does little to build confidence in parents. Rather than focusing on psychiatric diagnoses, Raising a successful Child (The Manual) departs from this trend and offers parents a concise, clearly written guide on the art of parenting. The Manual tempers the hubbub of so many prescriptions and "how-to's" and gently guides parents to the most essential ingredient---the relationship between them and their child. As such, The Manual inspires different sorts of questions than are commonly seen in parenting books. Rather than, "How can I make my child stop having tantrums?" or "How can I make my child perform better in school?," new questions arise: "How can I builde a relationship with my child that's emotionally healthy and helps my child move from a state of absolute dependance to successful independance?" Raising A Successful Child (The Manual) makes it clear that the most urgent demand upon parents is to be with their children. Multiple suggestions are offered to help parents develope a working plan. An essential component in this process is significant self-awareness on the part of parents with regard to their own inherited ideas about child- rearing, Equipped with the information in this book, parents can weigh the assumptions they've acquired from their families, social networks, and the media against the facts and develope a parenting plan they can feel secure with. Raising A Successful Child ( The Manual) lays the groundwork for everything that is vital to the parent-child relationchip. It is a book written for parents who are looking for answers amidst the clutter of extremes.
Categories: Family & Relationships

Raising the Best Possible Child How to parent happy and successful kids from birth to seven

Raising the Best Possible Child  How to parent happy and successful kids from birth to seven

The fact that there is one kind of secure attachment but two kinds of insecure
attachment always reminds me of Tolstoy's famous words: 'All happy families are
happy in the same way, each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way'. And ...

Author: Jo Jackson King

Publisher: HarperCollins Australia

ISBN: 9780730495871

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 400

View: 568

An original and knowledgeable take on child rearing, using cutting-edge research it will show you how you can be the best possible parent and rmake sure that your child becomes the best possible person they can be. How to navigate parenting myths and bring up confident, happy kids Being a parent is the most important job in the world, and it's a daunting task. After all, as parents our role is to ensure our kids become the best people they can be - happy and resilient. But how do we do that? And who do we trust to give us the best advice? Like many other parents, with the birth of her children occupational therapist Jo Jackson King turned to parenting books for guidance, but she found the contradictory advice confusing. So in this ground-breaking but still approachable book, Jo offers her assessment of the three main branches of current early child development science, in a bid to find the best advice for parents. In Raising the Best Possible Child you will learn how to: • Ignore parenting myths and be guided by the most up-to-date information on all aspects of child-rearing, including childcare, breastfeeding, leaving to cry, sleep, nutrition, discipline, physical and mental milestones, and education • teach your children how to navigate their own and others' emotions, manage stress and stay focused - all key factors for becoming happy and successful adults • Be a confident, thoughtful and responsive parent this book will show you how to encourage your children to make the most of their natural temperaments and endowments, so you can enjoy raising happy, emotionally savvy children who will become happy, successful adults.
Categories: Family & Relationships

The Fatherstyle Advantage

The Fatherstyle Advantage

Surefire Techniques Every Parent Can Use to Raise Confident and Caring Kids
Kevin O'Shea, James Windell ... parenting style , 164 - 66 Raising Motivated Kids
( Fuller ) , 131 Raising a Secure Child ( Biringen ) , 42 - 43 Real Boys ( Pollack ) ...

Author: Kevin O'Shea

Publisher: Harry N. Abrams

ISBN: 1584794771

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 208

View: 701

Harvard-educated attorney Kevin O'Shea left his practice to become a stay-at-home dad. James Windell is also a highly involved father, as well as being a juvenile court psychologist and a noted author of parenting books. Over the years they've discovered a thing or two about parenting, and in this book they share their novel insights into five parenting techniques that active fathers are actually better at than active mothers.
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Zero to Three

Zero to Three

Raising a secure child : Creating an emotional connection between you and your
child . Padua , Italy : Perigee Books . Blumenthal , S . J . ( 1998 ) . Women and
substance abuse : A new national focus . In C . L . Wetherington & A . B . Roman
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Author:

Publisher:

ISBN: STANFORD:36105123026770

Category: Child development

Page:

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Categories: Child development

Integrative Parenting Strategies for Raising Children Affected by Attachment Trauma

Integrative Parenting  Strategies for Raising Children Affected by Attachment Trauma

This book provides understanding, validation, and solutions for these caregivers. In it, the authors explain their innovative model of “team” treatment that includes an EMDR therapist and a family therapist.

Author: Debra Wesselmann

Publisher: W. W. Norton & Company

ISBN: 9780393708172

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 140

View: 746

An accompanying parent’s guide filled with effective techniques to help challenging children with traumatic pasts. Designed as a manual to complement the clinician’s guide, this book is written for birth, foster, or adoptive parents, aunts and uncles, grandparents, or anyone who may be raising a child who has experienced attachment loss and trauma. Their severe behaviors can often leave caregivers feeling confused, frightened, hurt, and overwhelmed, as they struggle to make sense of a massive amount of information—and misinformation—that exists on attachment issues. This book provides understanding, validation, and solutions for these caregivers. In it, the authors explain their innovative model of “team” treatment that includes an EMDR therapist and a family therapist. Best used in conjunction with therapeutic help, it walks readers through an array of parenting strategies that will lead them to a deeper understanding of their traumatized child, and better enable them to calm their behavior and improve their attachment security so they can heal.
Categories: Family & Relationships

Raising Your Children

Raising Your Children

Security and Childhood It may appear that I am forcibly attempting to admit a lot
of “ ultimates ” into a harmless discussion of child care that never meant to get
involved in “ deep ” things . But our pediatrician could not leave out ultimates from
 ...

Author: Carol Robinson

Publisher:

ISBN: 0935952276

Category: Religion

Page: 255

View: 177

Categories: Religion

How to Parent So Children Will Learn

How to Parent So Children Will Learn

DR. RIMM PROVIDES practical, compassionate, no-nonsense advice for raising happy, secure, and productive children, from preschool to college.

Author: Sylvia B. Rimm

Publisher: Great Potential Press, Inc.

ISBN: 9780910707862

Category: Education

Page: 318

View: 256

Dr. Rimm provides practical, compassionate, no-nonsense advice for raising happy, secure, and productive children, from preschool to college. Easy-to-follow parent pointers, sample dialogues, and boxed step-by-step examples show parents how to: select appropriate rewards and punishments, decrease arguments and power struggles, encourage appropriate independence without overempowering your children, guide your children toward good study habits, encourage creativity in your children, set limits for children, and much more.
Categories: Education

Raising Your Children

Raising Your Children

Another disturbed child wrote of his master ' s anger when he was found and of
his thorough beating , indicating fear and anxiety toward his father . A third wrote
of death in a snowbank . One of the secure children wrote of all the fun the dog ...

Author: Frank R. Donovan

Publisher:

ISBN: UOM:39015001646713

Category: Child development

Page: 248

View: 717

Categories: Child development

Raising Ethical Children

Raising Ethical Children

10 Keys to Helping Your Children Become Moral and Caring Steven Carr
Reuben. live it within ... To grow up emotionally whole and spiritually secure,
children need first and foremost to feel the love of their parents and family. They
need to ...

Author: Steven Carr Reuben

Publisher: Prima Pub

ISBN: CORNELL:31924063112605

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 246

View: 266

Tells how to instill love in one's child, teach self-esteem, and find role models, and offers advice on understanding moral development
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Raising Your Child s Inner Self esteem

Raising Your Child s Inner Self esteem

Children who do not develop secure attachment relationships tend to see
themselves as unlovable and others as rejecting and unresponsive . Insecure
children will reenact aspects of their nonnurturant caregiver role in their
interactions with ...

Author: Karen Owens

Publisher: Da Capo Lifelong Books

ISBN: UOM:39015034995277

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 355

View: 821

This invaluable guide is designed to help parents and counselors build self-esteem in children from infancy through adolescence, fortifying them with a healthy sense of self-esteem for the rest of their lives. Whereas some professionals are content to teach parents about building only outer self-esteem, as in parents unconditionally praising the children, Dr. Owens believes it is also essential to bolster a child's inner self-esteem. This way a child feels good from within, knows objectively that he's doing a good job, and is not solely dependent on the praise of others. While Dr. Owens believes strongly that parents must give children unconditional love, she is well aware that the world can be a harsh and difficult place. Therefore, she shows that the best gift a parent can give one's children is the tools to acquire the skills and behavior that will enable them to feel good about themselves - from within. This unique book imparts vital information on how parents can instill a sense of pride in their child each step of the way as the child's mind grows in perception and logic. Dr. Owens explains what behavior to expect from children at each developmental stage. She also supplies ample questionnaires so parents can determine the state of their children's sense of self-esteem. Most important, she wisely recognizes the needs of special groups of children. She thus offers specific advice for boosting the self-esteem of children who are shy, aggressive, unpopular, learning disabled, or gifted, as well as adopted children, only children, and children of working mothers, divorced parents, step-families, single parents, and same-sex parents.
Categories: Family & Relationships