Those who rarely say no and finally do often feel suppressed anger flare up.
They become like China Shop Bulls crashing through the home and causing
destruction. Theyarered with rage from past hurts. Be aware of these patterns and
Author: Jill Brooke
Publisher: Hatherleigh Press
The Need to Say No is a simple inspirational guide and instructional manual to help the reader gain command of their relationships by setting boundaries. Whether in love, work, family, or the world, the need to say no is imperative at times. And rather than accepting another transgression or being bullied, learning to set healthy boundaries is essential for our health and well-being at home, in the workplace, or the communities in which we live. The Need to Say No includes helpful advice on how to say no without fear and without injury to either party. It is an essential book for anyone who has said yes too often or just accepted an unacceptable status quo. Emile M. Cioran wrote, "Tyranny destroys or strengthens the individual." Indeed if we allow ourselves to accept a fate without setting boundaries through our will and actions, we can be destroyed emotionally, psychologically, and even physically. Many people have to learn the skills to defend themselves from the inappropriate demands of others, and for that reason The Need to Say No is written. Whether dealing with an abusive love partner, an inappropriate boss, a child that demands everything, a societal condition that needs to stop, or any other kind of bullies, we have the power within ourselves to change the outcomes for the better: to be bullish without being bulldozed. And this better outcome can mean peace at home, success at work, and real change in the world. The Need to Say No uses the metaphor of a bull to examine the behaviors of bullies and boundary violators and also includes mythological, historical and contemporary bull stories and uses them to identify the 10 bull archetypes of aggressive personalities you often encounter and how to deal effectively with them. The Need to Say No provides inspiration and guidance in an entertaining and positive way to help us improve our lives through the decision to say no. Rich with quotes, illustrations, anecdotes, examples, tips, and more this book delivers a profound way to reach a positive conclusion: by saying "no."
When men are in a situation where they need to respond Yes or No, if their
response is going to be No, most of the time they just say No and offer little or no
explanation. Depending on the circumstances, there is normally no guilt attached
This indispensable book gives you a simple three-step method for saying a Positive No. It will show you how to assert and defend your key interests; how to make your No firm and strong; how to resist the other side’s aggression and ...
Author: William Ury
No is perhaps the most important and certainly the most powerful word in the language. Every day we find ourselves in situations where we need to say No–to people at work, at home, and in our communities–because No is the word we must use to protect ourselves and to stand up for everything and everyone that matters to us. But as we all know, the wrong No can also destroy what we most value by alienating and angering people. That’s why saying No the right way is crucial. The secret to saying No without destroying relationships lies in the art of the Positive No, a proven technique that anyone can learn. This indispensable book gives you a simple three-step method for saying a Positive No. It will show you how to assert and defend your key interests; how to make your No firm and strong; how to resist the other side’s aggression and manipulation; and how to do all this while still getting to Yes. In the end, the Positive No will help you get not just to any Yes but to the right Yes, the one that truly serves your interests. Based on William Ury’s celebrated Harvard University course for managers and professionals, The Power of a Positive No offers concrete advice and practical examples for saying No in virtually any situation. Whether you need to say No to your customer or your coworker, your employee or your CEO, your child or your spouse, you will find in this book the secret to saying No clearly, respectfully, and effectively. In today’s world of high stress and limitless choices, the pressure to give in and say Yes grows greater every day, producing overload and overwork, expanding e-mail and eroding ethics. Never has No been more needed. A Positive No has the power to profoundly transform our lives by enabling us to say Yes to what counts–our own needs, values, and priorities. Understood this way, No is the new Yes. And the Positive No may be the most valuable life skill you’ll ever learn!
Incidentally I may say that there seem to be at least three strong reasons why a
teacher should know far more of a ... of the truth of what he is going to deliver ,
and not repeat the lessons by rote , as if he had no further concern with them .
Those with power no longer even expect to be challenged by reasoned dissent
as they speak . In fact the power speaker , like a good stand - up comedian , uses
words to silence dissent and debate . Words that say don ' t talk back render his ...
And this is the comthey say , will not join with him . Their Boys mon calamity of all
these frontier settlements , remain quietly with me , and I have no fear of and they
must remain very defenceless unless an attack from any Indians , unless the ...
Author: American Board of Commissioners for Foreign Missions. MeetingPublish On: 1882
On this point , therefore , we need say no more than to suggest that the
missionaries should take pains to manifest their interest in the speedy procuring
of these necessary adjuncts of their work , and , as far as practicable , endeavor
to draw ...
Author: American Board of Commissioners for Foreign Missions. Meeting
Know When To Say No INDIAN GAMING CONFERENCE & EXPO FEBRUARY
20-22 , 2007 SOUTHWESTERN. by Jack ... Even if the answer is yes , then more
questions need to be addressed to continue with the initiative ... or just say “ no .
JANET STEVENS , Researcher and Journalist , U . S . “ When incidents occurred
such as this , and we would ask the Israelis to take a dead body away , they
would say ' no , we want more to die . ' ” The Israelis are " fools and inefficient ...
The contention was here not only is there no ambiguity , bat that the statute did
not intend to meet to my mind we are ... evidence to go to need say no more than
that I entirely the jury that the defendant was brought agree with my Lord and my
about whose Liberalism there can be no manner or shade of doubt , and we all
felt as we listened to Mr. Reid that his speech echoed the real ... When ,
gentlemen , I have said that , I have said all it is necessary to say on this occasion
dinner , and I dare say it may be to some gentlemen of very hungry minds ,
whose clothes do not cost much . ... well for people who need not think of the
expense ; but do what I will , these items I have mentioned never stop at the
middle of the ...
Author: George Newlin
In this book all the fiction, nonfiction, and poetry of popular Victorian author George Eliot is chronicled in one definitive reference. In addition to the seven Eliot novels, three novellas, and two short stories, all sixty-eight works of non-fiction are covered, and all poetry, long and short, is included. Using Eliot's own words, Newlin presents all the characters in the novels and other fiction, as well as useful plot and content summaries, and bibliographic data. All of Eliot's short poems are included complete, and her longer poetical pieces are extensively summarized and extracted. In addition, the set includes two short essays by Eliot which have been unknown to scholarship until now. There is also a chronology of the works set against a chronology of Eliot's life. This comprehensive reference includes a thematic concordance of every aspect of life written about by Eliot. Complete with more than 60 illustrations, many from the earliest editions of the Eliot works, it is the ultimate reference to the full body of George Eliot's literary output.
Spend some time in this mode and we will no longer need the kind of EI we have
today . John Medeiros Say ' No ' to drugs , unions urge NH ALC regional leaders
have joined with Laborers representative Frank Sias , Rural Carother unionists ...
Usually one need say no more than “ The prisoner agreed to return to New York
for trial . ” Anyone will understand : “ Judge Smith said he would decide the case
later . " But many are left in the dark by , " Judge Smith took the case under ...
Author: Robert Gunning
Publisher: McGraw-Hill Companies
Category: Language Arts & Disciplines
What your reader wants; Ten principles of clear writing; Causes and cures.
As this now ; I will do so hereafter ; but my present sub was nearly a new idea in
the neighbourhood , we ject is the tillage of the soil : and I will therefore were
prodigiously ridiculed , till our success induced say no more here about cows ...
Author: Great Britain. Parliament. House of LordsPublish On: 1958
One need say no more, I think, than that he is carrying on a great family tradition
which has become a part of our history. From time to time we have these debates
on foreign affairs; but we have to admit, I think, that there is a certain sameness ...
I need say no more . State of the Air Transport System of what our Members are
doing , but we can make it really valuable only if these Members co - operate .
We have no desire to build up a top heavy superstructure of statistics , showing
Author: Northern Ireland. Parliament. SenatePublish On: 1934
... guardians of their rights and liberties. I suggest it is not for us to expose the
rights and liberties of any one of our wards to any form of risk in the future, for we
do not know what the future may hold for Northern Ireland. At present I need say no ...
Then follows the problem of wording — and there is no more trying test of an
accountant ' s writing than the wording of notes to financial statements . Since
there is a widespread objection to long footnotes , it is usually necessary to say
much in ...